While sex has been preached differently, from being a taboo to being morally impolite, transsexual women are more verbally and psychologically abused. Note that gender reassignment in trans women is an integral part of dictating how enjoyable, and comfortably, they will handle sex and hormonal changes. Unlike cisgender, transgender women have several characteristics to put in place to help assure smooth transitioning into being a trans woman, and sex is a very integral part of that transitioning.
What do you need to do before the actual sex with a transsexual?
If you are meeting a transsexual for the first time, you probably might want to freak out. However, if it’s not your first, or you happen to date one, I’m more than glad to help you with this phase. Yeah, I tagged it a phase because it might be somewhat tiring, especially when looking forward to having sex. So, here are what you need to understand before having sex with a trans woman.
Be sure you want to have sex:
While this might look overly shady, most folks date transgender because they want to have the feel. Most even have sex with them because it’s on their bucket list. So, in other, for you not to break your partner’s trust or, in this case, heart, you need to be sure she’s really who you want to be with. So, once you can fully attest to this, then you are good to go.
Quit being judgmental if you happen to be one:
If you want to successfully have sex with a transgender, you need to quit being judgmental if you are one of those. You need not start off asking questions about why she decided to be transgender. Questions a-such are turn-offs and can make most transgender feel very uncomfortable, as most detest sharing their experiences. Asking questions will arise to more questions, and they will make you question their judgment, mostly indirectly. So, keep it real, ensure you respect their decision of being transgender and not just because you want to get into her pants.
Being a transgender woman, there are various sexual orientations and sexual positions you need to understand in the new form, and they might be practically different from what they used to be. It is fine to want a change, but adapting to the change is what matters the more. Hence, how do you have sex with transgender women? Are transgender different from other genders? Here are some of the most important factors you can adopt in ensuring maximum sexual pleasure with transgender women.
Anal sex is the equality:
Everyone has an anus, and that’s the game-breaker, irrespective of your gender. So, if you want to enjoy sex with a transgender woman, you can practice safe anal sex. But be sure you’ve had the luxury of taking things out and getting consent. There are several ways to practice safe anal sex irrespective of gender, and one of them is making use of anal sex toys and lubes. They do not only make sex through the rectum smooth and easy, but it also makes the whole experience worthy of a second time. If you want to enjoy sex, maybe after reassignment, practice safe anal sex.
Respect their decisions:
Having sex with someone irrespective of their gender should not just be casual because sex is now casual. Respecting your partner’s opinion is very paramount, and in this case, it’s very vital. You don’t just have sex because you want to get your jizz out, but as reassurance that there’s love somewhere between you two. A transgender woman understands all there is about cis men, and it’s crucial that you pay attention to every detail; to achieve this, you need to trust their judgments and respect their opinions.
Introduce all kinds of sex toys with a transsexual woman:
There are more than a hundred several sex toys that you can adapt to make having sex with a transgender woman very smooth. From anal plugs to anal vibrators and balls, you can switch from one toy to another to make the experience more erotic and intimate. Sex toys are not just for regular folks; lesbians, stems, Trans and the likes make use of sex toys to introduce a new feeling, something different but very sexual. Note, however, as established above, be sure your partner is okay with introducing these sex toys before you use any of them in other not to make the whole situation awkward.